Thursday, November 10, 2011

The difference between Girls and Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women
make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls
want to control the man in their life.
Grown women
know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls
check you for not calling them.
Grown women
are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls
are afraid to be alone.
Grown women
revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls
ignore the good guys.
Grown women
ignore the bad guys.

Girls
make you come home.
Grown women
make you want to come home.

Girls
worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women
know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls
try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends and family).
Grown women
realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls
think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women
offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls
want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women
'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls
get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women
know that that was just one man.

Girls
fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women
know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

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